Wednesday, July 6, 2011

Taking a Moment....

Hey y'all! Sorry it's been a while since I posted, but I've been going through some stuff. Which I kind of want to discuss, so instead of my usual carefree post, it might seem a little on the rant-y side.

I have been shocked by the audacity of people lately. I have recently been exposed to people who have no qualms about sharing their opinions about extremely personal matters, which is usually fine. But here is the kicker. They have no place, and no right to judge me, or my actions, because they have no idea what is even going on. It's like walking in on the end of an argument, hearing one sentence and beginning to shout colorful insults about something you are totally ignorant about.

As you know, Shane and I were split for a short amount of time. I have discussed the details of that split with very few people, yet for some reason, so many out there feel they have the right to judge me, and even have the audacity to speak up on what I "deserve" to happen because of that split.

Excuse me. I'm trying very hard to be the bigger person, but honestly, all I can say is, WHO. THE. HELL. DO. YOU. THINK. YOU. ARE.

I'm still not going to go into the details about our split, because frankly it is nobody's business but Shane and I's. We are the only two who have been in this relationship, and therefor are the only two able to judge each other for past, present, and future actions regarding our relationship. And we love each other enough not to judge, but to forgive. And here's the kicker. That forgiveness isn't just ME forgiving HIM. Or HIM forgiving ME. It's forgiving EACH OTHER.

I refuse to defend myself or my actions to anyone, because I SHOULDN'T HAVE TO. Nor will I allow Shane to be put in that position to defend himself. And if somebody doesn't agree with how we choose to handle our relationship, then they should learn quickly to keep their opinions to themselves. Because this isn't the relationship of Shane, Katy, and (enter your name here). And if there is one thing I am very vocally protective of, it's the man I love, and our relationship.

And now I'm done. Thanks for letting me vent. If you aren't ok with venting, then, I'm sorry, but get the heck off of MY blog.

In other news, Shane is coming down to see me for the last few days of his leave! I'm so flippin' excited I could pee my pants. (I'll try to hold it in. Try.) I love this boy more than life itself, and am in the greatest hurry to start it with him again. He is the most amazing man. :)

My kiddos are excited to see him, too. Haha. Poor Shane. He comes down to see me and gets stuck at a summer day camp. :) Lucky boy. Our two year anniversary is coming up, and he is planning surprises. I wish I knew what they were.... I'm so impatient! :)

I'll be back soon with happy posts, promise. But even in KatyWorld, things aren't always sunshine and blue skies.

/Official End of Rant


  1. you tell them girl! you should always offer support to those you love and they obviously dont want what makes you happy. do you!! and enjoy every second you get with him! xo

  2. People seem to need something to judge. It's annoying. Have fun with Shane!

  3. I don't understand why people always get wrapped up in others relationships! DO what ya gotta do :)

  4. I'm so sorry that people are getting all in your business and judging the relationship you have with Shane. Just don't let them bother you. You only have to work about what you and Shane want together in life. I hope you have a wonderful time with him and can't wait to hear all about it! :)

  5. I hate people that can't keep their mouths shut. Seriously I have been in the same shoes girl and people are so freakin rude. If you ever need someone to talk to-you know I gotcha. :)

  6. Vent it girl! I'm certainly glad you're happy :)

  7. Katy, I am so sorry you are having to deal with this right now. You're right - no one has the right to tell you what you should or shouldn't do. Even if someone DID know all the details of what happened between you two, it still wouldn't give them the right to judge you or offer unsolicited advice. Know that we're here to support you, girl!

  8. I have a story to tell you later that miiiight make you feel 100x better. tah-rust me! vent away! its theraputic. and girl -- you better still be coming up here! next friday right? I'm not VA bound that week at all now so i'll be heeeere! <3

    love you like woah!

    Jenn @ Peas & Crayons

  9. Don't let haters get you down!! You don't need to explain anything to anybody! Just as long as you're happy, that's all that matters!!! Love ya!


Leave Love! It makes my heart happy. :)