I have been shocked by the audacity of people lately. I have recently been exposed to people who have no qualms about sharing their opinions about extremely personal matters, which is usually fine. But here is the kicker. They have no place, and no right to judge me, or my actions, because they have no idea what is even going on. It's like walking in on the end of an argument, hearing one sentence and beginning to shout colorful insults about something you are totally ignorant about.
As you know, Shane and I were split for a short amount of time. I have discussed the details of that split with very few people, yet for some reason, so many out there feel they have the right to judge me, and even have the audacity to speak up on what I "deserve" to happen because of that split.
Excuse me. I'm trying very hard to be the bigger person, but honestly, all I can say is, WHO. THE. HELL. DO. YOU. THINK. YOU. ARE.
I'm still not going to go into the details about our split, because frankly it is nobody's business but Shane and I's. We are the only two who have been in this relationship, and therefor are the only two able to judge each other for past, present, and future actions regarding our relationship. And we love each other enough not to judge, but to forgive. And here's the kicker. That forgiveness isn't just ME forgiving HIM. Or HIM forgiving ME. It's forgiving EACH OTHER.
I refuse to defend myself or my actions to anyone, because I SHOULDN'T HAVE TO. Nor will I allow Shane to be put in that position to defend himself. And if somebody doesn't agree with how we choose to handle our relationship, then they should learn quickly to keep their opinions to themselves. Because this isn't the relationship of Shane, Katy, and (enter your name here). And if there is one thing I am very vocally protective of, it's the man I love, and our relationship.
And now I'm done. Thanks for letting me vent. If you aren't ok with venting, then, I'm sorry, but get the heck off of MY blog.
In other news, Shane is coming down to see me for the last few days of his leave! I'm so flippin' excited I could pee my pants. (I'll try to hold it in. Try.) I love this boy more than life itself, and am in the greatest hurry to start it with him again. He is the most amazing man. :)
My kiddos are excited to see him, too. Haha. Poor Shane. He comes down to see me and gets stuck at a summer day camp. :) Lucky boy. Our two year anniversary is coming up, and he is planning surprises. I wish I knew what they were.... I'm so impatient! :)
I'll be back soon with happy posts, promise. But even in KatyWorld, things aren't always sunshine and blue skies.
/Official End of Rant